In ' ' because I don't talk about actual friendlines or niceness... I try to talk about rudness and obnoxiousness masquarading as "friendly".
My current "boss" (I do "volunteer work"*) is this type, and to give an example:
"Boss: You look better since you lost weight.
IT Guy: Having a serious illness does that to you.
Boss: It really suits you.
I also have to listen to her theories about me liking to be unemployed and needing my mom's help at least weekly. Why doesn't the Earth open up and swallow this woman? Or what about being hit by a meteorite? You don't kick people's touchy issues and get away with it... or apparently she does. :/
Rant over. I'm sorry. I just needed to get this out of my system.
* It's not really voluntary. Our current government made any kind of welfare dependent on at least 30 days of work per year... but they don't provide opportunity for all so you need to get creative. They also made High School diplomas require volunteer work, yeah, kind of defeats the purpose isn't it?